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Is He The Mr Right For You?

  • Dec 16, 2020
  • 5 min read

Something that keeps many single people hopeful is the belief that there’s someone in the world for everyone.


This may or may not be true depending on the type of person you’re looking for and what you want to have with this person.


So, in actuality, it’s this part that decides if there’s a match for everyone in the world that wants one. Specifically, is he the right person for you? It all comes down to what you want to have with another person.


And we all know what’re the ramifications of not choosing the right men to invest time with. Time, efforts, money, emotional stability will be severely impacted if the relationship goes wrong.


So instead of choosing a man based on his appearance (Psst…Can we judge a man by his looks? That’s an interesting topic, especially when I recently saw a 40-year-old uncle hiding behind a 20-year-old profile picture), we’ve to first identify why do we even want to start a relationship…


In this article, we’ve consolidated 5 reasons why you may want to start a hot, blistering relationship to know whether he is what you desire.

1. The easiest of all connections is the one-night-stand.

Just about any decent looking person can score one of these. Usually, these happen just because a person has an itch that needs to be scratched.


Yeah…You get all dressed up and hit some of the more crowded and popular XXX markets. That’s where you’ll find other people just like you that are looking for those few minutes or a few hours of physical intimacy with someone else.


This is pretty simple to make happen. And it does indeed has its own benefits:


It can make someone feel more confident physically and emotionally as it’s like having a fun, dirty little secret. And that confidence can be carried over to other areas of life, such as work, friendships, social interactions.


And of course, it gives the short-term romance and pleasure most of them like.


The downside of it is that for many people it turns out to be less than fulfilling. In fact, it can actually only make that emptiness inside of you that much more lonely.


For others, though, it does the trick until the next time the itch starts.


If you want to learn how to derive more pleasure and romance from every sexual intercourse and have him beg for more…



2. The next type of connection that may be the simplest to achieve is the person for dating and casual sex.

This one is better than the one-night-stand but doesn’t require a commitment from either party. These are two people that like a lot of the same things and are attracted to each other sexually.


While this may sound a lot like the beginning of a real relationship, it can actually be the result of a good friendship. This is all some people require to be happy.


When teens watch movies like “Friends with Benefits”, it may indeed motivate them to find a casual sex partner just to mimic those scenes and derive pleasure from it too. (Note that under-aged teens are not allowed here)


And we cannot deny the fact that casual sex is more accepted in today’s society, with many young looking to satisfy their “curiosity” and desires, as sex normally leaves them excited for a few days. Even the old too (Please don’t judge them…).


If you love the easygoing, low-maintenance appeal of a physical relationship, this may be a good option for you…


If you want to learn how to derive more pleasure and romance from every sexual intercourse and have him beg for more…





3. Then, there’s the relationship where a couple is in love and live together with no intentions of getting married.

These couples can be either monogamous or have an open style relationship. This type of relationship is becoming more popular in recent times for many reasons.


Some may feel that marriage is the end of all relationships and romance, and that idea stops them from getting married just to “protect” their current love.


Or you may be more focused on career instead of developing a relationship. Yes…Marriage and any long-term committed relationships can take up a lot of time and attention, and some people aren’t interested in dividing their energy between work and romance. And there’s nothing wrong with that…


Some may even be suffering from a lack of confidence that’s stopping them from getting married. Seen the example of Cyrus and Chris Hemsworth?


Even Thor has some difficulties managing his marriage and ended up divorcing, how can an ordinary woman sustain the relationship for long?


Please don’t take this for real…but it’s indeed a real reason that stops many of the women out there in this stage.


4. Then, there’s the traditional relationship where a couple is in love with each other and choose to follow the approach of actually getting married.

This relationship is a lot more difficult to have than the other ones because it’s much more serious. (Is this good or bad? I don’t know…Haha)


In a marriage, two people are committing to each other and making some pretty strong promises to each other in the process. They’re promising not to be with anyone else and to stay together in good times and bad times until death parts them.


This is the ultimate goal of many single people and is the hardest to attain, yet it CAN be done.


For example, one simple yet difficult tip to execute is to STOP your casual sex or one-night-stand activities & remain EXTREMELY loyal to your husband. But that doesn’t stop you from looking at other handsome guys on the street though


Food for thought:

  • Marriage can save your life. That’s an interesting fact of getting married that I’ve come across. Here is the statistic: Nine out of ten married guys who are alive at 48 will make it to age 65, compared with just six in ten comparable single guys (controlling for race, education, and income)

Perhaps it is because of the lower risk of contracting some diseases that stem from having lots of sexual activities with different partners. (Just my guess)

  • You will earn more money: Married men make, by some estimates, as much as 40 percent more money than comparable single guys, even after controlling for education and job history. The longer a man stays married, the higher the marriage premium he receives.

I know this feel like a scam, but it’s true. Even if married men has to pay for the expenses of his child, the cosmetic products of his wife etc.



5. One last type of relationship, and not too common, is the trial relationship.

A ceremony is conducted that binds a couple together for a certain time period, usually one year. If at the end of that time, they want to enter into a traditional marriage, that’s what will happen.


If they’ve decided it’s not what they wanted, they can part ways peacefully.


I’ll not elaborate much on this, just because I think most of the women out there won’t fall into this category. But that does not mean it’s not a viable option for you to start pursuing your relationship.


Final Note

So, all in all, there just may be someone for everyone in the world. It just comes down to what you’re looking for.


You’ve to decide upon which that relationships you’re willing to invest your time, effort and money into so that it won’t come out as a bust for you.


Once you’ve find your true purpose or reason, then you can safely start to pursue your true Mr.Right. Don’t worry…there’ll always be someone for you when time is right.


And If you want to learn how to derive more pleasure and romance from every sexual intercourse and have him beg for more…

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